Ladies: Had a first date. Not sure if it went good or bad? How should I follow up?

The hugs most likely ment she didn't want to go too fast, you May want to let her do the leaning in and going for a kiss. Ask her where she likes to eat and go there, this time you ask the questions and do the talking. Even the simplest questions can be the good ones. Contact her but don't rush her about a follow up date. Try letting her hint in a bit about the next one. Good luck :)